Rabu, 31 Juli 2013

A Changed Life

A Changed Life

By Jeremy Reynalds
Senior Correspondent for ASSIST News Service

ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. (ANS) -- Diana Peterson-Lane was an addict. Then she found Joy Junction-and Jesus.

Diana Peterson-Lane
Today, seven drug free years later and with six years of employment, she is a different person.
If you’d asked Diana 10 years ago what lay ahead for her down the road you would have gotten a pretty vague response. Diana said she didn’t think she was worth any sort of future-good or bad.
She said, “It wasn't just because I couldn't shake my addiction. It was because ... I truly believed I was a nobody and a nothing, so why would I have any type of future.”
However, that has all changed during Diana’s time at Joy Junction. Shelter staff, she said, “saw something in me that I had no clue was there.”
As a result, Diana said, her future is bright. “No illness or hard times can make that view change. I have something for my children to be proud of, and to be able to tell their friends when they talk about their mom.”
RA- Rheumatoid Arthritis and a Righteous Attitude
Considering the pain caused by rheumatoid arthritis with which she has a constant battle, Diana’s energy and attitude are amazing.
Diana said, “I get asked things like, ‘Why aren't you on disability?’ and ‘How do you work all the time?’ I always have the same answer, ‘God.’”
Diana said if it wasn’t God’s will, then she wouldn’t be able to do her job or deal with everything she has to daily.
She said, “The days that the pain is so bad ... I remember I am blessed and that if I don't get up, I may never get up.”
While those times are rough for Diana, she said she likes to tell people that while she has “RA,” the “RA” she likes to focus on is a righteous attitude.
Diana said the way her life has evolved over the last few years is proof positive of God’s intervention in her life.
Working to Help and Inform Others
As a driver and volunteer coordinator for Joy Junction, Diana called what she does “the best jobs in the world.”
Diana’s driving position means she is the first contact for a number of our new shelter guests. She said she holds that dear, “because I was them not too long ago. It helps not only keeps me grounded and remind me where I came from, but lets me help make some of their fears fade away long before we even get back to property.”
One of Diana’s fellow drivers, Liz Boniface, complimented her. She said, “Diana is a hard worker, no matter what she may be going through. She's always ready with a kind word for all of us, even when in pain she always has a smile.”
On her two days a week as volunteer coordinator, Diana gets the opportunity to give people a tour of Joy Junction and help them understand what we’re all about.
She said, “We’re not just a homeless shelter but a place for people to heal. (I aim to) break down the walls of misunderstanding that the community may have of homelessness, and help show we are human beings just like them.”
Resident Services Manager Joel Steen said he also appreciates Diana. “ I see her trying to do what is best for Joy Junction, even when her medical condition makes it difficult for her. She also has a sense of humor, vital in our work. She genuinely cares about our residents.”
Reflecting on her time at Joy Junction, Diana said it has helped make her a productive, strong and loving person.
She continued, “How many people can say that they have a great support system at work and in their private life? Well, I can. With the things I have gone through with my family and my health I still stand tall, and I don't stand alone.”
Diana said she is proud of what God has allowed her to accomplish and thanks Him for all the blessings she's received.
“I know without Him and my family here at Joy Junction I would have lost it a very long time ago, but instead of falling into a very deep abyss, I prevail. ‘My peeps’ have helped me through some of my own trials with their prayers and daily smiles.”
Diana has also helped us through some of our trials by making us smile. Thanks Diana!


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Teaching Young Teens to Articulate Their Faith Stories

Teaching Young Teens to Articulate Their Faith Stories

 
Teaching Young Teens to Articulate Their Faith Stories
The most effective way to affirm a teen's growth in Christ is to have them share their personal story.
Brooklyn Lindsey One of our roles as youth leaders is to teach teenagers to abide and depend on Jesus each day. We want them to move from crisis care (reaching out to God only when they are in crisis) to community with God, having a relationship that deepens over time and stretches through both the ups and downs of their day.

I'm thrilled when I see teenagers growing in Christ. I see it. I affirm it. I encourage it. And our team does the same. They see it. They affirm it. They encourage it.

Sometimes we see, affirm and encourage in front of other teenagers when we tell their personal stories.

But the most effective way of sharing about their growth in Christ is when they share about their growth in Christ.

Somehow, I forget this too quickly and let the gift of "telling" slip through the cracks. When, in fact, it is one of our greatest evangelistic resources.

So, to get back on track, we're going to start having students tell their stories—how God became more than a name to them—in front of their peers each week.

There are three things I was taught to say when preparing a testimony:
  • Before I met Christ
  • When I met Christ
  • My life since I met Christ
I think this is a good working framework, but for someone who is 11 years old, it may be a bit more difficult to articulate a "before" Christ life. "When I met Christ" can also pose problems to the teenager who has believed in Jesus since they were in preschool. They feel like they don't have a story to tell because there wasn't a crisis moment or event. And life since Christ, for some, isn't always the best. Even though their lives have completely changed from the inside out, their daily life circumstances may not have.

I'm not saying that this format is bad. I'm just saying it presents some problems as I think about young teenagers telling other young teenagers about their own lives with Christ.

In the past, I've done a life-mapping seminar at youth worker conventions, teaching youth workers how to deconstruct and understand their own development, and how to encourage their students to do the same. A part of this map is a timeline of events from birth to present. And on that timeline, I instruct them to draw a symbol during the time when God became more than a name for them.

I like marking life with Christ like this.
Even if a teenager has been in church and has believed in God and said the prayer of salvation, there is probably a moment in his or her life when God became more than lessons learned, but a person to be experienced, and it changed things for them.

I am working on a new set of questions—starting with these:
  • When did God become more than a name for you? Describe that moment when you met Jesus.
  • How has your life changed or developed since that moment or experience?
  • What keeps you growing in God? Name some things that help you grow in your faith.
  • Who encourages you as you follow Christ? 
  • What is a hope or dream that you have given to God?
  • What would you say to your friends about what it's like to know Jesus?
What questions would you add? Developmentally, are there questions that need to be changed to fit?   
Brooklyn has authored numerous books and projects, including Confessions of a Not-So-Supermodel, Opposite Day, Sacred Life, Devo2Go, and The Kingdom Experiment: Youth Edition. She is a pastor and speaker who loves teens, teaching from the Bible, and leading people to live in response to God’s love. Brooklyn, while named after a city in New York, lives in the sunshine state with her husband, Coy, and their super sweet girls, Kirra and Mya.

10 Ways to Help Young People Pursue Dreams


10 Ways to Help Young People Pursue Dreams


10 Ways to Help Young People Pursue Dreams
Tony Morgan's life-tested tips to Millennials on how to experience their future dreams.
I’ve had several conversations in recent weeks with young adults either in school or in the early days of their careers. They’ve been looking for advice from me. I guess they perceive I’ve had some success. And they obviously think I have experience. (That’s a kind way of acknowledging that I’m getting old.)
Here are some quick thoughts that might help you if you’re on the front end of your journey in life.
If I could sit down with Millennials, this is what I’d share. These are some of the basic steps that allowed me to pursue my dreams. Here are …
10 Simple Practices to Help You Experience Your Future Dreams

1. Get responsible while you’re still at home.

Don’t rely on mommy and daddy to bail you out. Don’t let them try to get you out of a bad grade. That’s your challenge. Own your schedule. Own your priorities. Own your financial responsibilities. They may help, but the goal is for you to leave home knowing how to navigate life without mommy and daddy having to step in if there’s a problem.

2. Get a job while you’re in high school.

Any job. You need to learn how to show up on time, make a boss happy and work hard to earn a paycheck … even if you don’t enjoy the job. That’s life. No matter what you will do later, you need to learn how real people work real jobs in the real world.

3. Get a degree, but don’t leave with a lot of debt.

No one owes you an education at an out-of-state school. Even if the government makes it easy for you to borrow all the money you need, go where it’s cheaper. Apply for as many scholarships as you can. Work your way through school. Too much debt will prevent you from pursuing your dreams.

4. Get an internship while you’re in college.

Don’t settle for working at McDonald’s unless you eventually want to own a McDonald’s. In the real world, what distinguishes one candidate from another is quality experience.
Get experience doing what you hope to do in the future. Don’t wait for the internships to come to you. Go out and create them … even if you have to volunteer.

5. Get a real job when you graduate.

It’s highly unlikely that your first job after graduation will be your dream job. But your first job can prepare you to work with and influence your peers and your boss. It can help you begin to process conflict. It will help you learn what you enjoy doing, where you’re skilled and what someone will pay you to do.

6. Get married to someone who shares your values and dreams.

You need a teammate. You need a close friend. You need to help them fulfill their dreams, and you need someone who will help you pursue your purpose. You can’t do that if you marry someone who doesn’t share your core values for life.

7. Get a savings account instead of a car.

If you want to pursue your dream, you can do that in a 10-year-old car. You can’t pursue your dream if you don’t have a savings account.
That savings gives you the freedom to take calculated risks to pursue your dreams while still providing financially for you and your family.

8. Get off your phone and into action.

Just because you “like” something on Facebook or “retweet” something on Twitter doesn’t mean you’re a champion of the cause. Instead, you need to give your time and money. Make a real investment. (And, by the way, be careful what you post on Facebook and Twitter. Employers look there first.)

9. Get a mentor.

But don’t ask anyone to be your mentor. They’ll probably say no. Instead, read everything they’ve written. Listen to what they have to say. Watch how they live their lives. Email them pointed questions, and they may respond. You need their wisdom and experience more than you need their time. (If you also get their time, that’s a bonus.)

10. Get disciplined about doing the next right thing right now.

If you want to experience your dream, you need to begin taking the next right step right now. That’s where integrity is built. That’s where you learn to persevere. That’s where people begin to believe in you. Be faithful in the now, and you may just experience your dreams in the future. If you fail to take the next step with integrity, though, you may never experience your dreams.

Pretty basic stuff. If you want to know the nitty gritty personal details, I shared some of that in an article called “How to Get From Here to There” several years ago.

Of course, you don’t want to follow these exact steps. Your plan is different than my plan. I highly recommend, though, that you embrace these foundational principles.

And I hope you get to experience your dreams.

 Tony is the Chief Strategic Officer and founder of TonyMorganLive.com. He’s a consultant, leadership coach and writer who helps churches get unstuck and have a bigger impact. He's the author of the leadership book Killing Cockroaches and his latest eBooks on leadership and ministry strategies are now available on Kindle.
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Kamis, 25 Juli 2013

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Jim Morrison, New Mexico, The Beautiful Gallows, and the Gothic Connection


Jim Morrison, New Mexico, The Beautiful Gallows, and the Gothic Connection

By Brian Nixon
Special to ASSIST News Service

ALBUQUERQUE, NEW MEXICO (ANS) -- When one thinks of Gothic music-that odd mixture of atmosphere and rebellion, the mind may wander to Goth music architects, Joy Division, Siouxsie and the Banshees, or the Cure-during the post punk days in England.
Jim Morrison
Or maybe later incantations such as Cocteau Twins-in Scotland-and 45 Grave in the United States. Or you may think of the recent industrial Gothic sounds of Nine Inch Nails or Marilyn Manson. If you were to go back even further in music history, you'd wind up with two groups-The Velvet Underground and The Doors.
But rarely does one think of New Mexico when thinking of Gothic music.
Yet, the southwestern state has a definite place in Goth music history, a geographical point of influence for the music and lyrics of the Godfather of Goth, Jim Morrison.
It was in New Mexico that Jim Morrison-of the rock group, The Doors-lived twice: during his early and late childhood years, before moving to California then back to Florida, and finally to California (Morrison's father was in the military), where he formed The Doors.
Jim Morrison lying on stage during one of his dramatic performances
What is clearly known is that Morrison was influenced by the culture of New Mexico, a state steeped in mystery and beauty; even Morrison's personal look-concha belts, western-inspired shirts, and Frye cowboy boots- draw from the region. And his moniker, "The Lizard King," conjures up the desert southwest.
Music journalist, Jim Reynalds, believes that Gothic music had its origins in Morrison's deep voice and dark sensibilities. Writer, Chris Ott, in this book, "Joy Division's Unknown Pleasures," conveys that Joy Division's singer, Ian Curtis, was fan of Morrison, following his lead in vocal style and demeanor.
In the book, "No One Gets Out Alive," writer, Jerry Hopkins, alludes that Jim Morrison received much of his visual and lyrical content from New Mexico: be it an automobile accident that Jim saw as a boy living in Albuquerque, or from a sledding accident his sister had in the Sandia Mountains (east of Albuquerque) where Jim experienced the pain and misfortune in others.
Concerning the automobile accident Morrison saw in New Mexico, writer, Stephen Davis, states, "Fascinated by the bloody spectacle, Jimmy tried to get out of the car to follow his father, but his mother held him back.Jimmy shuddered and strained to get a last look at the carnage.[Jim] never forgot the dying Indians. 'It was the first time I discovered death,' he recounted many years later."
What is it about New Mexico that influenced the opaque and atmospheric sounds that helped shape the music and lyrics of Morrison, and through his influence, Goth music? Or, for that matter, what in New Mexico elicits melancholy feelings and otherworld attitudes that formed Morrison's childhood memories?
For one, New Mexico is a confluence of ancient cultures, a hybrid of myth and history: Native American, Hispano, and Anglo. And this convergence brings with it a basket of religious thought, philosophical musing and beliefs, some otherworldly and enigmatic.
Penitentes in New Mexico
Take for example the various Pueblo Indian religious rites, or the Matachines ceremonies of the Hispano culture, both celebrating the union of earth and spirit, the physical and metaphysical. Or maybe the Catholic Penitente traditions that meld suffering with religious epiphany, piety and sin.
In a way, mood, setting, faith, melancholy, myth and ambiance are woven into the fabric of New Mexico-elements Jim Morrison-and Goth music-represent; a type of poetry of culture that melds into expressions of creativity.
Second, the New Mexico landscape evokes an exchange of shadow and light (many artist consider New Mexico's light unlike any in the world), illuminating ancient ruins and modern cities, mountains, rock formations, valleys and plains; atmosphere in its deepest form.
Dancers at Zuni Pueblo
And all this landscape becomes etched in the mind, helping shape and craft contrasts in thought and imagery, a characteristic of Morrison's-and Goth-music.
As an example, think of the ethereal and beautiful atmosphere found in Gothic music intermixed with a dirge or driving beat: beauty meets the beast; sublimity meets the repulsive; the heavens greet the earth; the saint meets the sinner.
New Mexico breeds these temperaments, a land ripe for inventiveness, inspiration, thought, and expression.
So it's no wonder that a new Christian band, The Beautiful Gallows, has emerged from the state. Debuting the song, "To The End," the gothic connection continues in the Land of Enchantment (the motto of New Mexico).
The words of "To The End," mostly taken directly from Scripture, allude to life and death, common themes in Gothic music:
"Now
The hour had come
For Him to depart
Having loved His own

This
The Holy Lamb of God
Who takes away our sin
And grants eternal peace
Hallowed be Thy name
Hallowed by Thy name

Chorus: You have loved me to the end (3x)
Now
May Your kingdom come
May Your will be done
On earth as in heaven

This
The Righteous Prince of Peace
Is to us the end and a
New beginning

Hallowed be Thy name
Hallowed be Thy name
"
Meeting in Albuquerque, New Mexico at Studio 150-I talked with The Beautiful Gallows members. I ask, guitarist, Spec, where the stimulus for the song came from. He said, "The inspiration of the song-first and foremost-came from Scripture. But beyond that, the song called for a combination of angst and ambiance. I wanted to communicate Christ's looming death with power and fear."
Author, Cormac McCarthy
Continuing, Spec said, "The influence for the words were the Biblical text themselves, but also the mood of the New Mexican culture: the Southwestern gothic novels of New Mexico resident, Cormac McCarthy, particularly 'The Crossing' and 'The Road.' McCarthy is able to infuse biblical motifs with philosophical and theological slants. Another influence would be the imagery of Georgia O'Keeffe's New Mexico paintings: barren landscape, desert plateaus, skulls and sky." Drummer, Tobias, used a combination of early 70's rock and post-punk dirge-like drumming for his tracks, stating, "I wanted to communicate darkness and authority, a combination of tom-tom drum work with an in-your-face rock chorus riff. The song is deep, especially the spiritual message, so I wanted the drums to reflect that."
Bassist, Loyal, who wrote the pre-chorus riff, stated that the song reminded him of the text in Song of Solomon, "Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death."
"Think of that," he continued. "Love and death go together. It was through Christ's death that love had its greatest influence."
An interesting side note of The Beautiful Gallows is that each member had tenures with other Christian bands prior to forming The Beautiful Gallows, and has since assumed stage names. So a purposeful anonymity surrounds the band.
When asked about this, Spec stated, "We want the music to speak for itself, not the bands we were in the past, but the creative future. And on another note, we don't want the band to be about us, but about the God that inspires us."
I asked them where the name, The Beautiful Gallows, came from and keyboardist, Bell, explained, "I came up with it. It is quite fitting, really. When one thinks of the gallows, the mind wanders to the southwestern part of the United States: Tombstone, AZ and the like-a place where criminals found their end.
"But for us, the name has deeper meaning. Gallows came to prominence after the Roman Emperor, Constantine the Great, abolished the crucifixion-in memory of Christ. So to a certain extent, the gallows are a reminder that the ultimate death-Christ on the cross-was marked and came to an end. Christ paid for it all."
I asked if the band would ever tour and Spec stated fairly directly, "Most likely you'll never see a Beautiful Gallows tour. You'll need to catch the music on-line."
Loyal-who has an art degree-states, "Our artistic pursuits are important to the band, so you'll usually find the music associated with aural imagery. This may never translate to a live tour."
I asked if Goth was a good description of the music of The Beautiful Gallows.
Bell said, "In a way, no; but on the other hand, yes. 'No' in the sense that we don't prescribe to the whole Goth lifestyle mindset, focusing in on darkness, death, and the like. We prefer life. But, 'yes,' in that-as Christians-we understand that death and life go hand in hand: Christ died so we might live; Christians die to self to live for Christ; and ultimately, we die to eternal glory. And 'To The End' does have a very heavy, melancholy sound, that's for sure."
Loyal then jumps in: "I think the Goth comparison is more in the mood of the songs-not the status of our worldview, the dark tranquility of the songs are coming to terms with sorrow, pain, and the anticipation for joy."
Spec states, "Traditional Goth music was rebellion for rebellion's sake; rebellion without a cause, if you will. The Beautiful Gallows have a cause to our rebellion: Christ. We are rebels with a cause."
According to one popular definition of Goth rock, the music "typically deals with dark themes addressed through lyrics and the music's atmosphere. exhibit[ing] romanticism, morbidity, religious symbolism and supernatural mysticism."
When one listen's to The Beautiful Gallows song, "To The End," many of these qualities are manifest. However, after speaking to members of the band, it's clear that "Goth" isn't the best description for the music; maybe "Cathedral Rock," where an infusion of light and hope penetrates the darkness and transport the listener towards the heavens?
Artist, Georgia O'Keeffe with one of her paintings at Ghost Ranch, New Mexico
But what is clear is that The Beautiful Gallows stand firmly in the New Mexico region's culture-be it the history of Jim Morrison's musical (not lifestyle) influence, the novels of Cormac McCarthy, the art of Georgia O'Keeffe, or the light and shadow dichotomy of a region steeped in the ancient ways of antiquity, tradition, geography, art, and lore-the fact is that New Mexico helps breeds the art.
And most importantly The Beautiful Gallows members are God-fearing men, wanting less to reflect death, but more about pointing people to life. They do this through soundscapes made to reflect an authentic Christian worldview, one full of creativity and hope; one full of Christ, which includes His death and resurrection.
To listen to The Beautiful Gallows first release, "To The End," click here: https://soundcloud.com/im-an-idiot
* For journalistic transparency, it must be noted that I had a small hand in helping the song along, doing some vocal work.

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Rabu, 24 Juli 2013

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